Well I don’t know about you, but I know that my biggest challenge in sewing has been my weight.
I know that sewing offers so much more opportunity to adjust to your weight than buying RTW clothes.
But now a days, it seems that by the time I get done making something, it is too tight.
The reason why, weight gain. I am beginning to research how to let pants out, lol:)
For me, weight has always been an obession of mine. Coming from a long line of heridetary fat genes on both sides, it is hard not to be concerned.
I go between a size 6 an a size 16 all the time. For instance, if I do:
1200 calories a day and workout 2.5 hours a day, I can be a size 6 (usually that only lasts about 2 weeks).
I can be a size 8 if I do between 1.5 and 1 hours a day with 1200 calories a day.
A size 10 (which was my norm) by working out 1 hour a day with 1200-1400 calories a day.
A size 12 with 1 hour a day and 1500 to 1800 calories a day.
If I stop working out, but just try to walk here an there and eat whatever I want, well, I just keep going up. This is what I have been doing, going up. I am almost to a size 16.
Here is one of my skinnier dresses I made when I was a size 8 in RTW about 4 years ago.
Now that I am 41, I am realizing that a number means nothing. It is how you feel. But the problem is, I don’t feel well. I can’t really run with my almost 3 year old and my back is giving me problems for not being strong enough to carry little one around.
So for this year, I have put together some goals for 2018:
Try to be healthier. I am currently a size 14 in RTW about to head to a 16, because everything is tight. I refuse to get on the scale. Do this by watching what I eat without being obsessive, and trying to fit in workouts when I can. This does not mean a specific number, but by monitoring how I feel.
Since I am not going to pay attention to numbers, I will need to be more cautious of what garments I am going to sew. So I have decided to make a wish list of items that would work with my body type, both high and low.
Here are the garments that I think would work best for me:
- Simplicity 8511 – Shift Dress – I think this works good because it allows for extra room. Then if I lose weight, I can always add a belt to cinch the waist.
- Simplicity 8465 – Knit Top – This is knit, need I say more???
- Concord T-Shirt from Cashmerette -T-Shirts are great staples for me, espically on the weekend, and it’s knit.
- Dartmouth Top from Cashmerette – Another knit that I feel helps shape the body with the V-neck and wrap.
- Mcalls M7121 – Long Maxi Dress – I live in Maxi dresses in the summer and they fit so great whether small or large. Also another knit garment.
- Charlie Caftan Pattern from Closet Case Patterns – Everyone did this one last summer, taking a closer look at it, I can see why. It looks so comfortable and again will work whether big or small.
- Kelly Anorak Jacket from Closet Case Patterns – I love this jacket, I need a nice comfortable fall jacket and this one looks like it could fit many sizes.
- Bombshell Swimsuit from Closet Case Patterns – Hmmmm taking a risk with this one, but it’s a one piece. I have such a long torso, that I have never been able to find a one piece. So excited to make this one!!!
- Mid-Rise Ginger Jeans from Closet Case Patterns – I did make these already and they were great, but were super tight, as I had put on weight from start to finish. But I seen a pair of Liz Clairborne in JCP and they have stretch elastic all within the waistband. So I might add this to mine. Also instead of long jeans, I am thinking that I am going to make them capris’ as I live in those all summer.
- Morris Blazer from Grainline Studio – Yet another Knit. I like these for Spring and Fall. This one looks like you can leave it open, so again will work with weight gain or loss.
- Mcalls 7364 – Relaxed pants. I really like these for summer. Here in Michigan we get so many warm days and my little one likes to play outside. They look like elastic around the waist, so these should be comfortable and allow me to chase the little one around.
- Sequoia Cargos & Shorts from Itch to Stitch – I am not sure these will work for me, but they sure look comfortable. I like that they are from a knit.
- Blackwood Cardigan from Helen’s Closet – for Spring. I love my Blackwood cardigan I made and wear them daily. So for Spring/Summer I think I am going to make out of a real light sweater knit and shorten the sleeves to 3/4.
- Brasov Warp Top from Itch to Stitch – Yes, I made this already, but I love how it covers you up. I can bend down and nothing is hanging out, if you get my drift, lol. With a little one, that is a necessity. I do find myself wearing mine at least once a week, so yes, I need another one. It is also a knit.
- Lago Tank from Itch to Stitch – I love tank tops for summer. I like the fact that I can sew and make the neckline higher. Again so nothing hangs out. Everything in RTW is always so low!!!
- Slimfit Raglan from Patterns for Pirates – A knit, surprise, surprise!!
- Kerry Cargo Pant from Style Arc – These look cool and comfortable, may not add all pockets to keep the bulk down, but will try anyways.
- Vouge 9299 Misses Top and Belt – This dress looks so cute, so I will have to give it a try!
Here is my 2018 wishlist.
My final thoughts on this. I don’t put a lot of emphasis on losing or gaining weight. I have been up and down for so long that it doesn’t really matter.
I have tried the so called “Lifestyle” change, but hey for me it doesn’t work. I have the hardest time being consistent and maintaining. Here I am at 41 and realizing, that this is just the way life is, take it or leave it. One day your up and one day your down.
So for me, this is going to be a journey to do the best that I can do. I will try each day with the best intentions, but hey, if it doesn’t work out, it’s okay.
So instead of beating myself up, I am going to use sewing to benefit me. Sewing gives me such therapeutic care that I don’t want to stop.
So instead of making what’s on trend or what I think looks cute, I will take greater care to select garments that will work with me, small or big. Garments that I know will fit weather I am small or big by the time I get done sewing, even if it ends up on the UFO pile, lol.
So come along and see where this journey takes me!!!